How do you know if someone is right for you?
Watch a clip of me talking to an audience at the Dating Fair October 12th 2019
How do you know if someone is suitable to date?
On Saturday I had the pleasure of speaking at the dating fair 2019 and it was a privilege to be in the company of an audience of over fifty guests all genuinely seeking proper relationships and wanting to learn about becoming more self-aware.
This is what I teach people in my one to one coaching sessions, how to know what you are doing that is either turning someone on or off. At the same time, it’s more important than ever to know what YOU want from a partner. Otherwise, you will be swept into a relationship that is wrong for you that leaves you feeling empty and frustrated.
It’s a known fact that once we start to date the brain gets heavily carried away by our emotion and after sleeping with a guy over five times a woman falls in love! So ladies be aware who you are choosing to have intimacy with as you will undoubtedly become attached.
For both my male and female clients its important that you have already worked out the qualities you desire from a long term partner. If you are happy floating along and get whatever turns up then you may well be wasting many years.
How do I know this? Because it happened to me, and I would continue trying to fit a square peg into a round hole to bridge the gaps that later showed themselves. Until I decided to STOP and start ‘conscious dating’ Does this mean you should stop dating altogether or be constantly nervous about getting it wrong?
On the contrary, once you have worked with an experienced mentor who has a good judgment of you and your needs then just hold out for the person that has the qualities you are looking for. Not every box will be ticked and you may not get your entire list, as long as you get the criteria from another person that is going to make your heart and soul sing, the rest you can learn together.
I am so happy to know this now and I suggest that you start adopting this method of conscious dating to avoid any more time-wasting!
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Looking forward to working with you
Dating Coach and Relationship Expert