Date Doctor 5th April 2012
Personal development coach Jo Barnett, reveals the secrets to successful relationships. This issue…
HELP ME TO FIND THE ‘RIGHT’ MAN FOR ME
I’m 34 and single. I have my own fashion company and am very successful in my career. My friends say I’m very attractive and I go to the gym every day. I have a bubbly personality and consider myself intelligent. I’m writing to you because I have tried to meet someone for years and it seems the guys I want are just not interested in me. I was out recently at a bar and I kept getting talked to by guys who didn’t interest me. I always get the guys that are not what I am looking for and I really want to break this pattern. Help! What can I do? I feel like time is running out.
WE HAD A GREAT TIME – SO WHAT WENT WRONG?
I really need your help! I went on a fantastic date last week and met a girl with whom I shared a real connection. We had such a laugh together and the evening flew by. I’m 30 and it has taken me ages to finally meet a woman I like. The evening ended with me walking her to her car and we kissed! The following morning, I texted, saying: “I had a great night, thank you. I’d like to see you again.” She has not replied, five days since the date! I’m beating myself up about what I said that put her off, or did I kiss her too soon? I’ve sent her another message and still not heard anything. Now I’m just feeling awful and wondering what I did wrong?