Tips and advice for women who want to date well

PRACTICAL ADVICE / GROOMING  (Invest in yourself)

  • Take a look in the mirror and ask yourself – would I date me?
  • Wash and blow dry your hair.
  • Have a facial; get your skin looking good.
  • Wear a new perfume.
  • Go shopping and buy some clothes, SOMETHING FEMININE.
  • Brush your teeth before you go out and take some mints with you, bad breath is the biggest turn-off.
  • Go to the gym, start exercising,  (ask a friend to join you).
  • Eat healthily and lose some weight if you need to.


  • Lean in / be interested
  • Flirt – act feminine, demure, don’t talk too much.
  • Have your arms uncrossed (it looks defensive).


  • Practice listening so that you can ask questions.
  • Stay upbeat and talk only about positive things at first:
  • Talk about hobbies, films you like, books, shows, etc.
  • Don’t talk about past rejections, problems at work, ill family.