You would not buy a house without seeing how you like it when you spend time with it, how you feel in the space and what potential it has for you.

The same goes for finding a partner, yet most of us want a quick fix, look at the marketing image, and hope for the best.

This is keeping people apart and enduing the dating apps again and again.

Let me help you find another way.

Here is my blue print for actually finding connection on the apps

Firstly you start with a warm opener, introduce yourself properly and give away a compliment, what made you reach out in the first place?

Secondly ask a personal question, open ended that will help you get to know that person, like tell me something you are working towards right now, or what’s your biggest green flag?

Keep it light and energising, give more than you get and if its going well suggest to speak on the phone, a 30 min conversation is enough or you will have nothing left to ask in person, arrange to meet and take it from there.

Go on a couple of short coffee dates a week and being this proactive will help you find the love you seek.

For more help and guidance contact me for one to one dating and relationship Coaching

Jo Barnett

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