Isn’t it spooky when someone ghosts you!

It’s literally like what did I do? what did I say? where did you disappear to?

I can help you here as the dating coach who works with hundreds of men and women looking to find real life connections.

Here are the top reasons you are being ghosted;

1. You are waiting too long to make contact
2. You are waiting too long between messages that the other person looses interest and forgets about you
3. Your opening messages were too generic/ boring/ uninspiring
4. You simply did not put the effort in to read the profile of the person you are engaging with
5. They just gave up because it felt too hard

Some easy fixes to change this

1. Engage straight away
2. Make it personal to the profile, ask an interesting open ended question
3. Start with a compliament
4. Be more selective about who you are messaging rather than lots of short ‘Hi how are you’s’
5. Find something original to say – ‘Hi it would be great to get to know you, love the photo of you by the sunset, where was it taken?
6. Encourage swapping numbers as soon as possible and have a phone call
7. Keep it to about half an hour and then arrange to meet up

For more fool proof tips and dating advice I offer one to one coaching on the phone, zoom, face to face.

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Look forward to speaking with you soon

Jo Barnett

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