Three Confident Ways to Prepare for Love in January

Notice your preferences
Take a look at the kind of people you are attracted to and write down the qualities you like, as well as the best qualities of all the people you have dated so far.
Check your nervous system, not your dating profile – are you guarded, rushed, or resigned?
How do you feel when you first start chatting to someone. Do you feel calm and relaxed or anxious and scared of messing it up?Your energy is transparent, even on text, so act like you dont care and see where it goes. Always start with a friendship.
Upgrade your self-trust – do you believe you’ll walk away if it’s wrong?
Trust your gut, the feeling in your body that tells you if it feels comfortable or not, that is your best que for taking it further, or not.
Focus on the values that are important to you and dial it up, if you love adventure and want to find someone adventurous book a trip or an event where its totally new and a bit out of your comfort zone.

Warm wishes

Jo Barnett

Mens Dating Coach

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