Compatibility is actually pretty rare, most dates are just filtering.
How many times have you been out on a date and wondered if it was worth a second date? If there is something wrong with you because you are not forming connection or attraction with someone?
Have you doubted if you will ever fancy anyone again?
Relax as you are not alone here.
Roughly 3 out of 4 people who are dating say it’s hard to find someone they connect with or want to date.
Compatibility is actually pretty rare, so most dates are just filtering.
So what happens when you finally get that all illusive spark? Â Perhaps it’s that feeling of aliveness where your whole body comes alive and you can’t stop smiling.
Or is it the energy between two people that can make the rest of the room disappear? Â The conversation flows and its a joy to find out about each other.
THIS spark is what we wait for and it makes all the ‘practice’ dates worthwhile.
No you wont find this connection easily and nor will they, so when it comes along cherish it and enjoy find out more and more about each other, gradually over several dates.
Giving up is what people do who run out of steam and find it easier to serenader to a life without a soulmate.
This is not what is intended for you, so I encourage you today to sign up for that speed dating event, book hot yoga, visit the film festival and talk to lots and lots of strangers.
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Let’s get you moving in different circles and firing on a new and wonderful frequency.
With Love
Jo Barnett
Leading Mens Coach
Dating Coach / Relationship Expert
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