
Let me help you uncover why you are still single!
Are you really as open minded and generous with your dating as you think you are?
When was the last time you gave someone a chance and went out on three dates?
I say three dates because if it’s a decent date you need to give it another chance and then the same again. People don’t often reveal themselves straight away and giving a good person a chance is the best thing you can do for yourself.
If it’s a hard no then it’s a no, but maybe deserves a chance and some people are shy on dates and don’t show who they truly are, as well as their confidence that may have taken a bashing.
I find that very few people are actually dating to commit to a relationship, they are dating because they are single. Therefore when you find someone who is relationship minded and wants to be in a committed relationship, give it a good chance before you discard them.
Lastly, only YOU know what’s going to work for you. No matter how many people you ask, you are your best guide. Try to avoid discussing your dates with friends until you have made up you mind for yourself, had your three dates and given someone the benefit of the doubt.
Warm Wishes
Jo Barnett
Dating Coach
Relationship Expert
Men’s Coach
London coach
Zoom one to one sessions