After searching and researching for the elusive spark that is ‘chemistry’ and attraction, I have finally found the solution.  It’s simple and yet needs to be created.

For sexual attraction to take place there must be a masculine and a feminine force, it does not matter who takes which role, but in the bedroom it must be there.

What I hear from women is that men are too laid back, with wuss energy rather than wolf energy, and men are complaining that women are ball breakers, too strong and overly critical / assertive.

These energy’s are due to social changed where men are encouraged to be open about their feelings and that a 50/50 society is what we are wanting.   Women have been given the change to step up to an equal footing in earning potential and work.

However it’s not working, so no matter how much women and men want equality, it has taken away sexual tension and raw caveman attraction.  Women can now provide, be the hunter and gatherer and men can be the carers.  There is not problem here until it comes to passion, as I have said earlier there needs to be sexual polarity, a push and a pull.

Whats the solution? What do women want? What do men want?

I’d like to simplify the answer to a pandemic of lost singles and encourage society to  empower and encourage our men to step up, to lead, and to reclaim their manliness.

Women’s growth is more complex as women have stepped up greatly, with careers and earning potential, and therefore  their testosterone has grown too.  Is there a way to have both?  I am not sure, but I do believe that when a woman’s partner demonstrates the strength and stability for her by leading and taking control she gets to grow with grace she will flourish and land more in her feminine.

At the same time we can acknowledge how easy it has been for men to get lost and to become irrelevant in the dating pool, leaving women with simply not enough choices.

So, let’s fix dating, love and relationships and work together to give everyone what they want, love, connection and passionate sex.

For men reading this and wanting to know how they can step into their masculine energy and become more desirable contact me for one to one coaching.

With Love

Jo Barnett

Dating Coach For Men

Relationship Expert

www.jo@jobarnett.com

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