Online dating has changed the way we date, let’s just call it ‘delayed tactics’.  What you will experience is people stalling and stalling and even forgetting whom they last spoke to.  Don’t let this happen to you and take control of your precious time when online.

Why is getting on the date such a long and tedious process?  I get asked ALL the time. The answer is that there is more choice and more social media to hide behind.  To make the change for yourself you can take control and be more assertive with your communications.

How many of you have been frustrated with the person at the end of the phone who has messagetious?  After a couple of emails don’t you just want to say ‘hi’ to that person on the phone?  My four point plan is here to revolutionalise online dating and make it a given that you will get a date rather than a long and boring game player.

Want to know how?

Here it is, the new assertive you who wants to get in and out of social media within a day and get a date lined up for the following night!  Follow my simple steps and let me know the difference you see?

Step one; the introduction

This is nice and easy and needs little explanation, something chatty and fun like; ‘ you have a gorgeous smile’, ‘tell me something that I don’t already know about you from your profile?’

Step two; message exchange

Fun and flirty messages are sent to one another, each one will be probing a little more into what makes him or her tick; ‘What’s a deal breaker for you?’  ‘Where are you spending the holidays?’ ‘What are you passionate about?’

Step three; keeping it real!

This is what separates you from the rest; you will be confident and direct by requesting a phone chat. ‘I’d love to talk more, give me your number and I’ll call you tonight (or) in my lunch break.  Wham, you are into the introduction phone call, between ten minutes and half an hour max!

Step four; fixing the date!

You are getting on well so strike while the irons hot!  People can loose connection or interest over night so don’t delay and ask them to fix a date. ‘I’d love to take you out sometime, when are you free this week?’  ‘Lets go for a drink and chat some more, I can do Wednesday or Thursday?’  Notice the confident tone that is not taking no for an answer.

The only problem is what will you do with all that spare time?? Pour yourself a glass of wine and put your feet up, you have a hot date to look forward to!

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Season’s greetings and much love to you all